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Paul the Newspaper boy and the Bully

 


Paul the Newspaper boy and the Bully

     So, clothes that I’d worn to school before March 1975 did not matter at all. It hadn't taken the pressure off me. I recall it was early 1976 a cloudy Saturday afternoon in March. I was on Schraalenburgh, it was chilly out. I was walking alone and I'm on Schraalenburgh I don't know if I just went out for a walk which I might have it's possible, but something happened that Saturday afternoon and it was about three o’clock in the afternoon.

    I was near the intersection of Schraalenburgh and Main Street. Main Street goes towards the downtown. This particular location laid at the top of a hill where Schraalenburgh meets  it and there was a gas station there. I was standing there, which was about a block or two away from Hardenburg Road closer to my home. I saw our newspaper boy, Paul and as I go to wave hello to him as he was standing next to a much larger boy. Paul smiles and says something. I could not make out what he’d said. So, I ask him. The two boys were freshman in high school at the time.

    The big kid, Mike was kind of a known guy. He appeared to be a bully, but he'd never picked on me before. Paul and he were standing at the corner of Schraalenburgh and Main Street that eventually passes the K-8th grade school. They were on an oblique angle from me as I was on the I was southwest of them Then Paul yells something then yelled my name and said something insulting aimed at me. I was perplexed, not understanding why, neither what was about to happen.

    Paul along with Mike began throwing beer bottles that were empty at me. The bottles were thrown at me across the whole intersection. They landed near me. The two laugh at me. At first, I thought to stand my ground and not be afraid. I realized  after two bottles landed a few feet from me, that I’d better move. As I went to move, they laughed more. Yet now I knew to run home on Schraalenburgh This as the bottle throwing was becoming more aimed at me. I was soon in our home safe. I told no one. I went and walked my dog, Goober. I told him as we had walked into a local wooded area.

    Days later, on a Wednesday I’d arrived home from school. I realized that upon entering our home that Goober was in the basement. I ask my mother, “Why is Goober in the basement?” At the time my mother was pregnant with my sister. She replied, “Oh I had to put your dog downstairs in the basement.  You're not ‘gonna believe what he did today.” She paused. I was baffled. She continued, “Well Paul, the paper boy came to collect for The Record newspaper. And when I went to open the door, your dog growled. He'd never done that before. Paul got scared and Goober got out from behind my legs as I was attempting to pay Paul. Your dog chased Paul into Mrs. Rosenbach’s enclosed porch.”

    Mrs. Rosenbach was this old biddy who lived next to us. She was grumpy all the time. I responded, “Oh. What happened?” Mom continued, “Thank God her porch door was open, Goober remained outside her door growling and barking at Paul. I had to go out and get your dog and put him on a leash. I couldn't believe this was happening. I put Goober downstairs in the basement; then I went out and I paid Paul.”

    Minutes later after hearing mom’s take on why Goober was now in the basement, I got my dog’s leash and took him from the basement for a walk. As we walked down our dead-end street towards a wooded area. I said to Goober, “Goober, you are my hero. Goober I love you with all my heart. I told no one what happened with Paul on Saturday. Yet you knew something that I didn't tell mom or dad.”

    This story arrived at a near hilarious point decades later in my office. Many miles away from where I’d grown up. Over 30 years later I’d found people who knew Paul, now in his forties.  So, one day after session I tell this story to a man in my office. We’d began to realize that I was perhaps speaking about the same Paul. This man told me how he met Paul. It was for a job interview. The man stated to me that day, “I would not hire Paul. I didn’t feel that he’d be a good fit for the company.” I asked why.  He stated, “He was just not employable. There was something about him. He was a negative sort. He couldn’t hold onto a job.” Then we’d realized when I asked Paul’s last name and where he’d grown up and who he knew. I realized it was the same Paul that had thrown beer bottles at me in March of 1976, now it was 2012.---Jody-Lynn Reicher

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